Saving to buy a house?

A house. A home. The American Dream…to own and not rent. To be your own boss in your humble abode. To be able to paint your walls with chalkboard paint, add new cabinets, and throw away that nasty old tub….without having to call maintenance and get permission for, well….anything.

My 2 youngest children are married and are now in the financial position that they can start saving to buy a house. And they are so excited. They are on Zillow every day. Driving around to look at neighborhoods. Deciding whether or not the school system should be considered or not. Determining a budget for their house. Should they get a fixer upper or one that is pretty up to date? So many decisions.

And, of course, the topic of ‘How much money do I need to save to buy a house?‘ has come up many times. Being the ‘wise and wonderful Oz' that I am (haha) they have both talked to me about their thoughts.  I listened, offered advice, pointed out the good and bad…and let them come to their own conclusions. With, of course, a few mom nudges now and again.

Maybe you have the same questions…maybe you are wanting to buy a house. So, I thought I would give you something to think about too when you are saving to buy a house?

Let's start with…is it even time for you to be considering buying a house?

Let's lean into the main stream for a minute here – Most people will say ‘You are wasting your money on rent.' Or, ‘Buy a house, you need the equity.' Which are all true statements…but from a financial standpoint you are NOT wasting your money on rent if:

• You are living someplace short term and plan on moving in 2-4 years
• You do not have your 6-9 months emergency fund established
• You are spending more than you earn 
• Your debt-to-income ratio is out of sync
• You do not have a MINIMUM of 10% for a down payment
• You do not have money set aside for any type of repairs

Yes, it might take you another year for you to save to buy a house.  But, in the interest of not getting into debt and being a wise and smart homeowner...a year is a drop in the bucket.And once you have all the boxes checked in your savings categories, go on and enjoy that house….I can hardly wait to see what houses my kids choose.  I think they have me lined up for tile work, painting and wallpaper. I better stock up on Tylenol now! Right?

Saving to buy a house.

First – Determine your max budget for the house. And DO NOT LOOK at anything outside your max. Because you will always fall in love with the more expensive house – it's human nature. Which then increases your down payment, interest paid and taxes. 

And then set aside money for:

• A minimum of  a 10% downpayment. 20% used to be the norm, but that is difficult to do now with the rising cost of houses.
• Closing costs – they can vary depending on your credit rating, loan amount and a multitude of other things. A good round number is $5- $7k
• Moving costs
• First home? Lawn mower, trimmer, edger….all the usual lawn equipment
• Appliances – usually a refrigerator, clothes washer and dryer
• Fixing up a few things. Maybe new blinds, painting the walls, refinishing the floors before you move in (always easiest to do when the furniture is not there)
• Repair fund – this again will depend on your own financial situation – I would say a minimum of $1000. As you live there, add to it. Get it to about $3000. You can usually repair most things for that amount of money because your homeowners insurance will kick in the rest
• Renovations – if you really hate that bathroom, and can't wait a few years to save money to fix it, then make sure you have the money ahead of time. Otherwise you will finance it or put it on a credit card. Which is a no no if you do not want to spend more than you earn. 

Now, sometimes life can get pretty overwhelming, right? Especially when you want to buy a house but still need to save for the downpayment or renovations!

And when stress sets in it is sometimes difficult to be happy or joyful. So, please don’t let stress have the last word! 

Go on and take a look at the ‘Top 5 Stress Reducers’ (Action Plan included). So that you can eliminate what causes you stress and get on the path of living a joyful life.

Wouldn't you like to live a joyful life?

Don't let let the circumstances of YOUR life determine who you really are? Choose YOU instead! Not sure how to do that? Let me help!

A few Joyful Living posts for you to read!

What is Joyful Living?

5 Simple Steps to Choosing Joy

Finding Joy in All Things

What Does God Say About Joy?

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